On Saturday the party went off without a hitch. I was a little late because my sister in law insisted upon having a special dress which was specially made for all of the in law wives. My dress had not been picked up at the tailor's as yet by the time the event began. Remember that anxiety that I spoke of when I was anticipating this trip? That was nothing compared to what I felt while getting ready for this party. As MY luck would have it, the dress, although finished in time was not able to be picked up. Time was running out for me to attend the party which started at 4pm. What was even worse was that everyone at the house left ahead of my children and myself because they had already picked up their outfits previously. This made me anxious, hot, and sweaty.
I was still waiting for my dress by 7 pm. My husband (who left ahead of me) returned to the house. He informed me that there was no more time, and that I should put on a dress that I brought from home. By this time I was so tired and sick of waiting, that I quickly put on a dress that I brought from home.
In typical London weather, it started to rain and the air was quite chilly that evening. There was a lot of people at the hall. Even though I was fashionably late, and missed the beginning of the festivities, I was greeted warmly. The place was packed. My children and I greeted my mother in law who was seated at the front of the hall (at the head table). I saw a lot of my husband's family members whom I hadn't seen in a long time. There was a live band playing upbeat and rhythmic tunes. Food and drink appeared from every direction. The food was catered and there were servers walking back and forth. The menu included scotch eggs (a type of boiled egg covered and baked with cornbeef and flour), spicy seasoned rice, baked chicken, steamed fish, tossed salad, and a type of bean casserole.
After dinner was served, the presenter offered a little program of appreciation to my mother in law which was followed by thoughtful words from her friends, relatives, children, and grandchildren. The highlight of this part of the evening was when my little three year old niece took the mic and said "Granny, I love you." (So cute, with her British accent!) The photographer took group photos of my my mother in law with all of the family members. After which the cake was presented. it was a three tier, vanilla sponge cake, covered with pink and white frosting.
I danced to a few of the numbers to the mostly upbeat music with my husband and kids. it was nice to see people smiling and having a good time. There were many gifts presented to the celebrant and party favors for the guests. We received party favors such as canvas bags, tea bags, slippers, soap, coffee mugs, and t shirts.
The party was over at 12pm and most of the guests started to leave almost immediately. It seemed like there was enough nervous energy to go around leading up to this event. That was evident in what happened next. As my brother in law (whom we were staying with) was determining which family members would be carried home in whose car, he discovered that he didn't have his house keys. His wife left her keys at home as well. You have to understand that it was early in the am, and that place was locked up like Fort Knox! As everyone put their heads together to determine what to do, we sat inside the hallway of the party hall to escape the cold. The owners were gracious enough to let us stay while they cleaned the hall. We snapped pictures and paced as we decided what to do.
After a while my brother in law discovered that his friend mistakenly took his house keys home, and he lived very far out into the "outskirts" of town. After numerous calls and no response to his friend, we decided to sleep on another one of my sister in law's couch. So my husband, children, and I camped out on the couch for the evening. You can't make this stuff up. Real life is definitely more interesting than fiction, but what a night! I will never forget it whenever I recall this vacation. I am glad that we had this time to spend with family and we loved every minute of it.
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Don't you hate it when things like this happen under the most difficult circumstances? I had to go to the hospital when I was in Spain for a minor problem, but the problem was made major by the setting!
ReplyDeleteI only have a couple of technical suggestions for you. I think you don't need all the parentheses. Commas should be used instead. I also have a question for you. At the end, when you say "After numerous calls and no response to his friend, we decided to sleep on another one of my sister in law's couch," Do you mean one of your sisters-in-law or one of your sister-in-law's couches?
Point well taken. Sometimes when I write the parenthesis are a way for me to write the way I speak. But I should just use the commas. Also we slept at one of my sisters in law's couches. Thanks for the heads up.
ReplyDeleteDebra, I really enjoyed reading your account of the party. Your strong use of details - from what was served to the party favors - helped to paint a vivid picture of the event. I was even curious to hear more about the attire, since it seemed to be quite a formal party and all the sister-in-laws were supposed to wear the same dress. What did they look like? What about the dress you ended up wearing?
ReplyDeleteThe one thing I was wondering about was the very beginning of the piece. Since you'll be submitting this without your previous posts, should you provide a bit more of an intro so that a reader unfamiliar with your blog could have some insight into your purpose for visiting London and a hint of the anxiety you've had leading up to the trip? It might be nice build-up for some of the snafoos that you write about - even a chance to add some comedy to the situation (like you say, "You can't make this stuff up!") I love it!
Katie,
ReplyDeleteThat is definately a good idea. I think that some background info would be a good idea. I also hope to provide more details about this trip and the reason for the visit. Thanks for the heads up.
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Hi Debra what an amazing event to be able to attend. I love hearing about your trip. What I might suggest is that you add and bit more detail when describing the event. I would love to hear more about the food and the clothes maybe how the culture if different from yours. You have done a great job of recording the events but tell the reader more about your perception of the trip. What are you thinking and feeling, epically when you find out at one o'clock in the morning your entire family will be sleeping on a couch:) Good work!
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